Where is the solution??

The demise of Sushant Singh Rajput is really hard to except the fact that we are living in the world where we are connected although suffering from the loneliness. What is the main reason behind his suicide, no one knows yet, but in the span of seven years he worked in so many successful movies and his last one based on the theme of suicide (In the movie his son commits suicide because of low rank in the exam and he delivers the message that,suicide is not the option to deal with failure). That’s the difference between reel and real.

I remember, when the shooting of his film MS Dhoni, he came to Aurangabad, at the hill of Hanuman tekadi, I and my friends bunked off the college and went to see the movie shooting. The romantic scene between him and Kiara Adawani was going on, retakes after retakes happened but the both actors had done their work very professionally. That is the memory of him in my mind, but before that I had seen some episodes of Pavitra rishta (because of my mother), in the serial he played Manav, main lead, then he joined films but the image of sanskari pati (ideal husband) still in the mind of every housewife of this country. But what anyone else can do now, his exist gave us a big shock and the question that “where is the solution”??

One and half years before, in the third semester, I’ve written an article about Suicide, for Media rise magazine, mentioned about how the rate of suicide has been increasing in urban and rural area. The rural area faces the effect of farmer suicide other side the urban area faces the lost of students, employees and economically weak people. As a student of psychology, I remember the study visit to Kadari Hospital, Aurangabad. The discussion held about the suicide and its prevention. How some factors affect to prevent the person like talking to someone (he or she maybe your friend or family), spirituality and after some point the counselling. These all are important in the phase of depression and other mental health issues.

Sushant Singh was not the first one who faced depression before him Deepika Padukone and Parineeti Chopra shared their feelings, how they stuck with it and overcame the problem. After seeing all these conditions, one question arrived in my mind that, our previous generation got the previlige to deal with many situations which seem us difficult to handle. One of my friends, got married very early but having some problems with her husband, she split up with her husband, the marriage didn’t survive more than a year. Now a day many students and even elder ones also going on the way of finishing their lives. And because of these examples, the thought came in mind that our generation is not as capable to handle the problems that is physical or psychological as previous ones. The speed of life and technology are increased but we lost our tolerance level. This is just an opinion but we really have to think about it. Which kind of life and society we want.

As usual the blaming game starts now, who is responsible for his death? Why he killed himself? I think, we are in the society, that always interested in someone’s life. Is it a real suicide or murder? that’s the another topic but this is the time where we have to give our young generation the lesson about prevention from depression and other mental health issues. He was only 34, and i.e. this affects a lot. This isn’t a way to finish a life. The opinion is mine but as a fan it hurts a lot. But what we can say about an artist, the artist will be always alive in our heart. That’s the speciality of art, which will never die..